Calvary
Church Cross † Roads
105
West Maple Street
Lombard, IL
60148
630-620-8899
The Rev.
Emily Mellott, Rector
The
Rev. Tom Smith, Deacon

Pastor Emily Mellott
March, 2010
WE ARE A TEACHING, PREACHING AND
HEALING COMMUNITY CALLED BY GOD
TO PROVIDE THE OPPORTUNITY TO GROW
IN CHRISTIAN WITNESS AND SERVICE
Volume 22, Issue 3 Web Site: www.calvarylombard.org March,
2010
MESSAGE FROM PASTOR EMILY
Dear friends,
A few weeks in and it seems like Lent has been here forever and is planning to stay forever. Winter – in the early part of March – often seems the same.
Is it any wonder, then, that the name “Lent” itself essentially means “Long”? The English word Lent derives from the same root as “lengthen” – a seasonal observation about the lengthening days that promise Spring. The Latin term for Lent (quadragesima) is also a reference to time – meaning, essentially, forty days. Lent is a time that’s supposed to be long. In Biblical stories – 40 days in the ark, 40 years wandering the desert between slavery in Egypt and the Land of Promise, 40 days of prayer and fasting and temptations in the wilderness – forty simply means “longer than we can count” – a seemingly endless stretch of time.
What are the “too-long” things in your life? In my family, it’s the agonizing pace of the process by which my well-loved foster nephews move toward legal adoption. It might be waiting for a birth or death, it might be a well-entrenched habit, it might be the time it takes for a job or a relationship to evolve.
The witness of scripture, of course, is not just that God’s promises wait at the end of the forty days or years – but that God is present and active in the slowly passing time. That in those “forty” times, when waiting and familiarity breed distraction, God is here, and concentrating on us and on what we will become, with God’s love.
So, in this Lenten month, I invite you to take a fresh look at the endless times and places in our lives – looking for what God is doing in the longest times, the times when we’ve lost count.
Blessings, ![]()
Pastor Emily
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Directory Changes
John Horn has a new phone number: 630-414-3518. Please note in your directory
Our organist, Jeri Kellan, is now back on the job! We welcome her and are thankful for her recovery.
NEW
OFFICE HOURS for 2010
NEW OFFICE HOURS FOR 2010 AS FOLLOWS:
Monday & Tuesday 8:30 a.m. to Noon Wednesday & Friday 8:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m.
Thursday By appointment.
My article this month consists of brief musings on several topics.
Am I the only one to be upset that fewer and fewer individuals seem to honor commitments when they find it inconvenient to do so?
Am I the only one who gets upset when individuals either do not make any effort to clear the sidewalks around their homes after a snow storm or shove the snow over to their property line so that in order to walk on the sidewalk I have to go out into the street and re-enter the sidewalk at the next house?
Does anyone else find that when the telephone/television/ internet service is “upgraded” there is on an immediate basis trouble with the telephone and/or TV and/or internet? I do marvel at the communication advances; I, however, wonder about it when I observe two individuals seated across the table from each other in a restaurant and texting (I hope not to each other) rather than enjoying each other’s company and a good meal. And I do have a concern that the generation of my grandchildren are spending so much time on video games and watching TV rather than participating in physical activity.
Well, enough of my negative musings. Several individuals have commented on the fact that we seem to have an early Lent. Well, yes it is. That’s because Lent is determined by the date of Easter which is determined by the lunar calendar. (It changes every year just like the observance of Passover by our Jewish brothers and sisters). Don’t worry; next year we have a late Lent. Of course the date of Easter determines the length of the season of Epiphany and the season of Pentecost... If we have a short season of Epiphany we will have a long season of Pentecost and vice-a-versa. Aren’t you glad you asked?
May all of us keep a holy Lent so that we can observe a glorious Easter.
Your servant in Christ, Deacon Tom
Smith
From the February 8 Vestry meeting:
Thank you to…
Nancy Moran for the Spirit and Food series at
Adult Formation
Gloria Sparrow and Joyce Crowe for
Wednesday morning taxi service.
Linda DeVaun, Helen Sulzenfuss’s helping hand
for communion.
Fran Cole for stepping in as organist while Jeri
Kellan’s knee recovers.
Jack Holley, fearless leader of the ushers,
and unsung member of the Altar Guild.
John Morrice, for the cleanup schedule without
which Coffee Hour would be a mess.
…Jim Adamson for finding and applying new plastic feet for the parish hall chairs.
Sheila Ferguson who found, and the
Altar Guild and clergy who continue to supply
gluten-free communion wafers.
Episcopal Church Men for sloppy joes, ham, and
more at the Annual Meeting,
and for leading our Lenten Outreach program providing school uniforms for children in Africa.
March already!!!! We are in the home stretch and
spring always brings to life the Sunday School ministry. There will be
fundraisers and trips being planned and painting and lock-ins and outreach
projects!
At the
Bishop’s request, the churches in the Diocese will participate in an outreach
project to provide school uniforms to needy children in Africa. In some
towns and communities, children may not attend school unless they have a
uniform. This outreach project will be adopted by Calvary and we are
planning on having the children in our Sunday School help their fellow students
in Africa by helping to raise money for uniforms. The J2A students will be
helping to run this outreach project for our younger students through Lent.
Communion
class is underway. The First Communion ceremony will be on Palm
Sunday, March 28th at the 10:15 a.m. service. Bread baking will take
place on Saturday March 27th in the morning; Time to be announced. The
Second Grade communicants are Rose Bonarek, Mason Ceplecha and Hannah Lombardi.
After
Lent, during the Easter Season, the J2A group will be having a fundraiser to
help raise monies to aid in their Pilgrimage. Tiffany Balsitis has graciously
offered to oversee this fundraiser. Please be on the lookout for more
info to come.
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The
Rite 13 class finished painting and putting their personal touches on their
room downstairs! Come on down and take a peek~ you may learn a
little something about these very cool members of Calvary!
March at a Glance
March 21st –Youth Sunday- J2A
March 27th (Sat) - Communion Class
Bread baking
March 28th – Palm Sunday – Communion Class
presentation
April 4th - Easter Sunday
Jennifer Ceplecha,
Sunday School Superintendent
630-424-1127
Saturday, March 27, 10:00 a.m.
Mary Hanahan, hanahanone@aol.com
P A D S
Tues/Wed, March 23 – 24, 2010
ADULT FORMATION - LENTEN STUDIES
Our 9:15 Adult Formation program in Lent will be a study of Jesus’ last week: what the Gospels really say about what happened in Jerusalem from Palm Sunday to Easter Day.
Sunday evenings at 5 p.m., beginning
February 21, Pastor Emily will lead a Lenten series on Holy Choices: living our
faith in our daily decisions. We’ll use resources from scripture, prayer
traditions, and the history of our faith to explore how we make decisions from
groceries to presidents.
Watch the Sunday bulletin or the Calvary
website for more details about these programs.
Bagel Pickup
Schedule
March 07 Ruth Ann and Brian Pfohl
March 14 Linda & Nick Arnold
March 21 John Morrice
March 28 Marilyn Stein
April 4 Ross Kellan
April 11 Donald George Castle
April 18 Sue & Ron Seger
April 25 Katie & Greg Pardue
May 2 Sandy
Hitchin
As always, if you run into a problem please call
me. Sally McClure has volunteered to be
an emergency backup if the need arises!
Much thanks! Ross
Kellan
Coffee Hour Cleanup
Check Posted Sheets in the Parish Hall.
Many Thanks to all these Helpful People!!
John Morrice, Coordinator
On Saturday March 13th we will be hosting a family St. Patty’s corned beef dinner at 7:00 p.m. in the parish hall. This event is in place of the Beer Tasting party that was previously announced. This fun filled family event is only $3.00 per person or $10.00 per family. This is a "bring your own beer or wine" evening. There will be items raffled off at our St. Patty’s Day dinner. Maureen Elliot is chairing this fun family evening. She will need some volunteers to help.
Mark your calendars for our next SAMS bake sale on April 18th. This is held between church services and after 10:15 am service during coffee hour. We will need bakers to donate baked goodies. We will also need hungry buyers to purchase these yummy baked goods to support this ministry.
In Christ,
Tiffany Balsitis, Secretary
SPECIAL PROJECTS!
Have you heard????
Isn't it fun to tell people about good
stuff? – A new store in town, a one day sale, a nifty movie, a funny
story? We all love to share information and we are good at it!
There will be two opportunities in the
next few months for fellow Calvarians to brainstorm about sharing the good news
about the church community that we have. THIS WILL BE FUN! Get your
thinking cap on and your creative juices flowing because we need you in our
lively discussions.
Put one or both of these dates on
your calendar - Sunday March 21 after the 10:15 service/Sunday April 18th
during formation at 9:15.
Nancy Magurno
& Pastor Emily
See
next page for Lenten Outreach Article!
This is an exciting opportunity!
John Jaska, Coordinator
“PRAISE GOD FROM WHOM
ALL BLESSINGS FLOW….”
We sing these words every week at the 10:15 service when the offering comes up the aisle to the altar.
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This is an acknowledgment that everything we have, and everything we are, comes to us by the grace of God. Our very lives are gifts from God. As Christians, we are called to take these gifts and use them wisely and return with thanksgiving a portion to God and God’s work in the world. We are called to be God’s Stewards.
Stewardship is an intentional act. In order to work a Saturday clean-up, cover a shift at Pads, or make a prayer blanket, we have to plan it out. We have to set aside a portion of our week to do the work of God. In order to provide songs for the service every Sunday, the choir must plan to meet and practice the songs. In order to put an offering in the basket on Sundays, we must budget our other expenses. These are also examples of the stewardship of Time, Talent, and Treasure.
We will concentrate on each of these areas over the course of the next year. The first area I want to talk about is Treasure. Treasure means money. Money is a subject that people often feel should not be talked about in church because it is such a material topic for such a spiritual place. But, Jesus talked about money more than anything else. He recognized that “where your treasure is there shall your heart be also.”
It’s true that we always pay more attention once we have put some money into something. Several years ago I decided to invest in some stock on the advice of a broker. I had never heard of the company before; I didn’t know how to read the stock pages in the newspaper. You can be sure that I quickly began to care a great deal about this company. I learned to read the stock pages. I started reading the business section of the paper and listening for news about the company. I cared about this company. My fortunes were tied up with the company’s fortunes. When I sold the stock, I ceased to care about the company. My heart followed my treasure. My depth of concern about the company lasted only as long as my investment did.
As a Lenten discipline, you may want to take some time to think about the choices you make with your time, talent and treasure as an expression of your faith. This goes beyond what you put in the plate on Sundays.
Pastor Emily’s 5:00 pm Sunday night Lenten series: Holy Choices: Decision Making and Our Faith is a great opportunity to explore why and where you redirect God’s flow of blessings of time, talent and treasure.
Ruth Ann Nelson, Stewardship
RuthAnnN@hotmail.com
ECM and J2A outreach project for Lent.
2010 Bishop’s
Challenge for Achieving Universal Primary Education
Donate a School Uniform!
Over 75 million children are barred from attending
primary schools every year; two thirds of them are girls. Bishop Jeffrey Lee
wants to change that and issued a challenge to the people of the Diocese of
Chicago at Diocesan Convention in November: Send kids to school! To help
us achieve universal primary education, we must provide children with the
mandatory uniforms that they cannot afford to attend the “free” public schools.
The challenge comes just as we head into gift-giving season. If each of the 40,000 Episcopalians in the
Diocese of Chicago would donate one school uniform ($12 each), more than
$400,000 would be raised toward Goal Two of the Millennium Development Goals:
achieving universal primary education.
ECM and J2A
groups are sponsoring this challenge. During Advent and through Lent, Members
from each group will be available to tell you more about this project, and can
help you to make a donation that will save a life.
Together, the funds collected for the Diocese can provide uniforms and fees to send 40,000 children to school next year. Each parish will have gift cards available for purchase. These cards will be distributed to donors, while the monies collected are documented and disbursed in a timely manner.
Monies collected will be sent
to Episcopal Relief and Development after Lent. (cont.
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We
are waiting for additional materials from the Diocese and will have
announcements in the future.
Proposed Minutes from 1/11/10 Vestry
Meeting.
Present: Grant Ianelli, Ruth Ann Pfohl, Lisa Pardue, Gloria Sparrow, Hester Bury, Emily Mellott, Jim Adamson, Nancy Moran, John Jaska, Nicki Jaska, Patty LeBlanc, Jan Bruesch
After opening prayer, the meeting was called to order at 6:37 p.m.
The minutes of the previous meeting were submitted and approved.
The Treasurer’s Report was received as submitted.
Pastor Emily discussed the upcoming Leadership Day to be held on February 20, 2010 here at Calvary. The new church brochure contains a revised Mission Statement that will be used starting in Lent.
Senior Warden Jim Adamson made note that Opening prayer will be rotated amongst Vestry members.
Jim also asked the various Vestry liaisons to identify their various constituents and/or teams, review and revise position descriptions and form one concrete, measurable goal to achieve in 2010 for the next meeting.
Committee reports:
Building & Grounds- Frank Samela’s request to move cost of security system from this budget line to utilities was noted.
Congregational Development: – Jan Bruesch pre-sented a possible “self-discovery” workshop at Calvary for the benefit of both Calvary and the community at large.
Fellowship-Lisa Pardue said the annual picnic will be June 13, 2010. Gloria Sparrow mentioned the dinners for the Hocks are scheduled through April.
Formation-Lent Formation schedule – Grant Ianelli noted 9:15 am will be lead by Deacon Tom Smith and Pastor Emily noted she will be conducting the Sunday 5 pm series on Holy Choices.
Outreach- Patty LeBlanc and John Jaska reported on the possible fundraising for the School Uniforms for a child in Africa program. Patty will also look into possibly working with our sister Lutheran church to help with a Habitat for Humanity project.
Worship-Pastor Emily advised that Ash Wednesday services will be held at 9:30 a.m. and 7:00 p.m. Stations of the Cross will be held on Friday evenings during Lent.
Old Business- A discussion on the annual meeting format with a possibility for a committee to enhance attendance for next year. Hester Bury brought up the subject of how to increase the feeling of connection as a community in our church and to reach out to those that may need us.
New Business Annual Parochial Report was reviewed, required signatures obtained, and submission of report was approved. Election of treasurers, Nancy Moran and Dennis LeBlanc was held for 2010. Lynn Honiotes was elected Vestry Clerk for 2010. Jim Adamson asked for input on anything that needed to be changed or fixed at Calvary, including how and who to do it.
After Compline, the meeting was adjourned at 8:13 p.m. Lynn Honiotes, Vestry Clerk
March Vestry Meeting
Monday, March 8, 2010 at 6:30 p.m.
ALL are welcome to attend these meetings!
DATES TO REMEMBER
March 07 5 p.m. Lenten Studies
March 13 SET
CLOCKS FORWARD 1 HR
March 14 5 p.m. Lenten Studies
March 20 First
Day of SPRING!
March 21 Youth Sunday- J2A
March 21 5 p.m. Lenten Studies
March 27 (Sat):
Communion Class Bread
baking
March 28 Palm/Passion Sunday
Communion Class
presentation
April 01 Maundy
Thursday
April 02 Good
Friday
April 03 Holy
Saturday
April 04 EASTER SUNDAY
Items
for the April, 2010 issue of CrossRoads must be submitted by March
15th. They may be left in the
Newsletter mailbox, e-mailed to LMMCEWEN@up.com
OR Dottie Cain dotcain1@comcast.net
If you have any questions, please call Dottie Cain at 629-8863 or Linda McEwen at 295-9972.
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SPECIAL
DAYS IN MARCH!
March 17 –
St. Patrick’s Day
March 19 –
St. Joseph’s Day
March 25 –
The Annunciation of the Lord to the Virgin Mary
March 13-14
– TURN CLOCKS BACK ONE HOUR
March 20 –
First Day of Spring
March 28 –
PASSION & PALM SUNDAYS
March 29 –
Monday in Holy Week
March 30 –
Tuesday in Holy Week
March 31 –
Wednesday in Holy Week
April 1 –
Maundy Thursday w/Last Supper service(s) & Vigil TBA
April 2 –
Good Friday (fast) service(s) TBA
April 3 –
Holy Saturday service(s) TBA
April 4 – EASTER
DAY – The Resurrection services TBA
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